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We Don't Live Here Anymore

2004 101 min R Drama · Romance

Why do we want what we can't have?

Here's a film that asks what happens when literary novelists get bored. Two couples in upstate New York swap partners and then try to sort through the emotional fallout. It is the kind of movie where affairs are somehow both devastating and mundane.

Directed by John Curran · Written by Larry Gross, Andre Dubus

Starring Mark Ruffalo, Laura Dern, Peter Krause, Naomi Watts, Sam Charles, Ginger Page

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